tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41247761149397194602024-02-07T16:18:30.306-08:00Bed Rest & BabyDanielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-72999025723604754962012-12-31T11:43:00.002-08:002012-12-31T11:47:03.511-08:00Baby Time!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">
<span style="text-align: left;">I am way behind at updating this blog, but I am happy to announce that I am still pregnant.</span></div>
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I got discharged from the hospital 2 weeks go, December 17th, and was able to spend the holidays at home with my family. It was absolutely wonderful!</div>
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Bed rest at home is way better than at the hospital. I have loved being at home with my family and spending the last 2 weeks with Emory. We played lots of dollhouse, board games, and watched tons of movies. It was perfect. </div>
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Did I mention the food upgrade? I hope to never eat hospital food ever again. It makes me sick just thinking about it!</div>
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Believe it or not, but today is the big day. My c-section is scheduled for 3:30 pm, a little less than 3 hours from now. I am very ready to meet this little guy and be done with bed rest. I am not so ready for the c-section. Not really sure why, but I am so nervous!!</div>
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I can't believe I actually survived 12 weeks on bed rest...</div>
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We are hoping for an uneventful surgery and a big baby!</div>
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<br />Danielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-49601222367874769602012-12-13T19:45:00.001-08:002012-12-13T20:24:03.374-08:0065 Days NICU Free!I know I have mentioned this before, but my daughter Emory was born at 24 weeks. She spent 96 days in the NICU. She came home on oxygen and remained on it for 10 months.<br />
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Everyday I spend on bed rest, and remain pregnant, I know I am preventing our baby boy from spending that day in the NICU. I have now been on bed rest for 65 days. To me that means, 65 days NICU free for baby boy Oakey. Although I have felt plenty of guilt with this pregnancy, I always feel better knowing that my bed rest efforts are keeping my boy from a long and unpleasant stay in the NICU. This idea makes my hospital stay SO much more doable.<br />
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On Wednesday I turned 33 weeks. My belly is getting nice and big!<br />
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Unfortunately I have been experiencing nightly contractions again. They are only about 10 minutes apart and are not super painful, but they keep me quite uncomfortable.</div>
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My hospital diet has been a little painful. After eduring the food for the last 9 weeks, I can only stand to eat salads now. I eat the same salad twice a day. Today my friend Megan brought me these delicious cookies from Trader Joes. I may have eaten half the box already!</div>
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Zack leaves tomorrow morning and won't be back until next Wednesday. I get super bummed when he leaves. Thankfully it will be the last trip until after the holidays. As for the positive, I am trying to focus on that fact that I get discharged on Monday...how awesome is that?</div>
<br />Danielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-7978001924065829352012-12-10T07:41:00.002-08:002012-12-10T15:57:17.796-08:007 Days...In 7 days, on December 17th, I am getting discharged from the hospital and finishing off my bed rest at home. In order to make that happen, a few things need to stay stable.<br />
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First, my water needs to stay in tact. If it breaks, then delivery is in the near future and no going home for me. Second, no more dilation. Last time I was checked, I was still 4 cm. I think I will request to be checked before I leave just to help avoid being discharged and then needing to be re-admitted shortly after. Lastly, no regular contractions. My contractions have really slowed down and they are only coming randomly now.<br />
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As long as I can stay stable, I am going home! I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much, but I am so looking forward to spending the holidays in the comfort of my own home. By then, it will be almost 10 weeks since I have been home, driven in a car, or slept in my own bed. I am so ready.<br />
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Last Friday Em returned from Idaho. Zack's parents were kind enough to take her for 10 whole days while he interviewed for residency in Baltimore, Albany, and two places in Chicago. 10 days was a long time and I missed her so much.<br />
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We reunited with lots of kisses, cuddles, and even made bracelets together. I can't wait until I can take care of her again, I just hate the feeling of being helpless.<br />
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Zack arrived back from his interviews late Saturday night and surprised me by showing up at my hospital room with a poinsettia and cinnamon bread in hand. It was so sweet, I almost cried.<br />
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We spent Sunday afternoon just the three of us. Pretty sure Em missed having us around. At one point all three of us were snuggled in my hospital bed and took an afternoon nap. It was squishy, but she didn't want to miss out on the fun.<br />
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On Saturday Zack will have his last Opthalmology interview. Thank goodness.<br />
<br />Danielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-89239996985491151192012-12-07T08:43:00.000-08:002012-12-10T07:43:33.730-08:004 lbs 6 ounces!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Yesterday I had an ultrasound to check on the growth of baby boy.</div>
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They estimated that he weighs 4 pounds 6 ounces!</div>
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I can't believe how big he is already.</div>
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Pretty sure if I went to 40 weeks, I would have a 9 pound baby.</div>
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Since I have to deliver via c-section at 36 weeks (cause of my previous classical c-section), I am thrilled that he is a big boy.</div>
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Hopefully I can make it to 36 weeks and baby boy can skip the NICU and come straight home with me.</div>
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What a dream that would be.</div>
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Yesterday one of the ladies that organizes our Wednesday bed rest lunch-ins, hooked me up with this awesome t-shirt!</div>
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When the bed rest ladies and I get rolled down to Starbucks to chat, we get plenty of people staring and multiple people have even asked to take our pictures!</div>
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Can you imagine the attention we will draw in our new shirts?</div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">Baby boy Oakey did it, he stayed put until 32 weeks!</span></div>
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8 weeks ago 28 weeks seemed unlikely and 32 weeks seemed like a dream.</div>
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Besides the aggressive kicking I feel from my belly, it's hard to believe that I am actually 32 weeks pregnant. I guess bed rest is working!</div>
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Yesterday I got checked and I am still 4cm dilated. My contractions have really calmed down and my headaches are slowly going away. I feel so lucky.</div>
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My doctor came in this morning and discussed the possibility of continuing bed rest at home until 36 weeks. I am torn. Although I want nothing more than to go home, I also want to do what is best for baby boy. After hours of contemplating this option, I have decided to stay until 34 weeks, which is December 19th.</div>
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Tonight I just might order myself a pizza to celebrate 32 weeks...fancy!</div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">Since Zack and Em have been gone for the past 4 days, my alone time has become plentiful. One of the other bed rest moms suggested that we break out of our rooms together and sit at Starbucks and chat. I thought it was such a great idea.</span></div>
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At 8:00 pm on Friday night the nurses rolled us downstairs, out the front doors to see the Christmas lights, and then parked us at Starbucks. It was raining outside and felt amazing.</div>
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We were already in our jammies, but we didn't care, it was just so nice to get out of our rooms.</div>
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Today after church we met up again at Starbucks. We were able to recruit another bed rest mom too, and we all had a blast chatting away for about an hour.</div>
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I didn't realize how much I depend on Zack when he is around. I have missed him terribly since he left. He is the best at bringing me food, doing and putting away my laundry, rubbing my achy legs, cleaning my room, and playing games with me. He gets home at around 5:00 pm today and I can't wait. He really is the bomb.</div>
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Since I have had a lot of extra time on my hands, and an unfortunate constant headache, I've made an endless amount of baby hats.</div>
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I have really enjoyed making them but I think it is time to move on. Maybe I will try out a scarf or some dish clothes? Those always make great Christmas gifts.</div>
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Em comes back on Wednesday and I can't wait to kiss her face off. I also have another ultrasound this week to check on baby boys growth, all good things to look forward to.</div>
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I'm feeling much better about my bed rest situation now, I guess week 7 was just a tough one. From now on, only positive thoughts!</div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">Tomorrow is December 1st. It's funny to think that I did not leave the hospital grounds for the whole month of November. I wonder if I will miss this place when I leave here? Let's be honest, I doubt it.</span></div>
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My belly is growing nice and big. I know this is the case considering my nurses reactions after not seeing me for a couple of days. They always comment on my growth, which is a great thing around these parts.</div>
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I am finally getting to experience some of the lovely side effects that accompany the third trimester. Some of those include: heartburn, itchy stretching skin, my belly button beginning to pop, using the bathroom 8(x) a night, reflux, and painful baby movements. Since my pregnancy with Emory ended so early, I never really got to feel her move much. It has been so fun to sit and watch my belly jump up and down. This little boy sure likes to move and I don't think that feeling will ever get old.</div>
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Emory is in Idaho right now and I miss her so much. I don't think any other visitor could make me as happy as she does.</div>
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She is very content to spend a couple hours a day in my hospital room, and fully understands that I will not be coming home until the baby comes. She constantly amazes me with her independence and her ability to adjust to the situation like it is no-big-deal.</div>
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My nights now include a whole bunch of contractions. It's getting really old. They usually start after dinner and continue on until midnight. They are not super painful but definitely make me uncomfortable and very nervous! Add a pounding headache to the mix and it's a party!</div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">Megan & Max came to visit today. They are the best little visitors. Max is totally cool with just hanging out in my hospital room, he makes himself right at home by immediately taking off his shoes. It is the cutest.</span></div>
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Megan saved me today and bought me some more yarn. Since I've been spending way less time on the computer due to headaches, crocheting is my new best friend.</div>
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Wow, it's kind of hard to believe that I have been in here that long. Especially when I start thinking of all the things I haven't done for almost 2 months. Most of the things are simple, but I must admit I miss them..<br />
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<li>Taking and picking Emory up from school. I miss watching how excited she gets everyday when she sees me.</li>
<li>Walking & running.</li>
<li>My condo. It may only be a little shack, but I sure miss that place</li>
<li>Taking baths. My favorite thing about winter, if I had my choice, I would take one everyday.</li>
<li>Cooking dinner. Never thought I would miss this, but I can't wait to cook/bake again</li>
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Unfortunately, the longer my stay, the worse my headaches get. Monday night I had another contraction flare-up, which meant I was put back on a dose of Nifedipine. Although it seems to slow down my contractions, it aggressively ramps up my headaches. Since taking that dose, I haven't been able to get rid of them and I am constantly popping pills to manage the pain.<br />
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Yesterday Emory went to Idaho to spend the week with Zack's parents. She was so excited, she sure loves spending time with them, and I love that they are so willing to take her.<br />
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Zack left this morning for Baltimore and then New York. He has 4 residency interviews within the next week, which means this baby better stay put so his Dad is around for the big day.<br />
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Here's to hoping for an uneventful week!Danielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-16694993013306279762012-11-25T19:27:00.001-08:002012-11-25T19:35:13.009-08:00A Close Call...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<span style="text-align: left;">The last four days have been packed full of excitement, well hospital excitement that is. Thursday afternoon (Thanksgiving Day) I started having contractions. At first the contractions were 15 m</span>inutes apart and then slowly moved to every 2-3 minutes. At this point, my cervix was dilated to 4 cm. </div>
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Since the contractions were so frequent and starting to get painful, the doctors transferred me over to Labour & Delivery.</div>
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Since being admitted 6 weeks ago, I have only cried a few times. Tonight, I cried when Zack asked me what I wanted for dinner. Who knows why? These 4 walls are starting to close in on me and I am craving the outside world.<br />
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Tomorrow I turn 30 weeks.<br />
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For some reason, the farther along I get, the harder bed rest gets. Clearly I would do anything to keep this baby in till 36 weeks, but I am starting to feel less anxious about the idea of him being born before that. Silly really, but I would be a liar if I didn't admit that thoughts of lunging across my room haven't crossed my mind. Don't worry, I would never do such a thing.<br />
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I am plan on waking up tomorrow with a better attitude. Let's be honest, I can't be grumpy and celebrate 30 weeks, right?Danielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-30805957018578533942012-11-19T09:10:00.001-08:002012-11-19T10:28:55.828-08:00A Rough Night: Day 41<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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At 10 pm I started having a couple of contractions. My lower back would ache and my belly would tighten. The nurse hooked me up to the monitor and I was having contractions about every 8 minutes. They were not super painful, but noticeable.</div>
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I then started to get nauseous and a large lump formed in my throat, it felt like I had swallowed something that didn't go completely down. Every time I would lay down, my throat burned. This was followed by vomiting, chills, and more contractions.</div>
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They quickly gave me an IV, pumped me full of fluids so I didn't get dehydrated, and put me on medications to try and stop the contractions.</div>
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All of the symptoms lasted until 5 am. At one point I was having contractions 3-5 minutes apart. We were concerned that I was dilating and would need to deliver. Luckily, I was still only dilated to a 4 and the contractions stopped shortly after. At 6 am I was finally able to get to sleep, I was exhausted! Yay for staying pregnant!</div>
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This weekend my Dad came to visit. It was a nice distraction from my regular routine and we had lots of fun. We played lots of games, ate yummy food, and went for several wheelchair rides. That's about as exciting as things can possibly get around these parts!</div>
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It's Friday today, which means my Dad will arriving in a couple of hours. Who would have thought that at 28 I would still be so excited to see my parents? Well, I am. There is just something special about having my family around, I sure miss them when they leave.</div>
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On Wednesday my Mom and Em came and set up a Christmas tree in my room. </div>
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It sure brightens things up in here. According to the nurses, I am the first one to get my tree up in my room. I think a few of them might be annoyed that I broke the unwritten Thanksgiving rule, I blame it on my Canadian blood, we always start mid-November and I wouldn't have it any other way.</div>
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Reaching 28 weeks was a big milestone, and everyday past it is worth celebrating. I can't believe that hitting 30 weeks is a real possibility. If you would have told me that 5 weeks ago, I would have never believed you. </div>
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I am pretty sure I would be lost without technology. This morning my Mom, Zack, and Emory decorated the Christmas tree. I know it's a little early but I am a Christmas freak and I wanted to get it done while my Mom was in town. Although I wish I could have been there, FaceTime was the next best option and it worked great.</div>
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I had a great weekend. Zack's mom was in town helping out with Em so Zack and I had a little "date". He jumped in bed with me and worked on some stuff for residency, it was super romantic!</div>
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Also, last Thursday my wonderful nurse Nona taught me how to crochet.</div>
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Nona taught me the ways, and I kinda love it now.</div>
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I didn't realize how stressful being on bed rest can be. Obviously my daily activities are not stressful, but trying to keep up with my families daily activities/commitments from a hospital bed is overwhelming at times. We have had lots of help which has made our new "normal" much easier to manage, but it's hard to explain the frustration I feel from not being able to do such simple tasks myself.</div>
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I feel guilty putting so much responsibility on Zack. We really lucked out with the timing of my hospital stay. Since Zack is in the middle of interview season for residency, he booked off October-January to travel to-and-from interviews. If he isn't out of town interviewing, he can be at home taking care of Em. </div>
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This has been our saving grace. </div>
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Not only is Zack juggling obtaining (the very competitive) Ophthalmology interviews, traveling to interviews, and finishing up several publications, he is also taken over all of my daily responsibilities, including doing everything for Emory, plus managing to visit me on a daily basis. He is awesome. </div>
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If you have ever known anyone to go through the medical school/residency experience, than you will understand the importance of getting a residency. Unfortunately, Opthalmology is one of the most competitive residencies you can apply for, making this whole experience extremely stressful. Top that off with a hospitalized wife and a potentially preemie baby, and...well, you get the idea.</div>
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Anyways, Zack is pretty much Mr. Do-it-all lately and I couldn't be prouder to call him mine.</div>
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This morning he sent me this picture of Em in the tub, I love how he set up the iPad for her to watch. I'll give him points for creativity.</div>
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As we were Face-timing, Zack was finishing up Emory's hair (did I mention he can do a killer round brush?) and then he jumped on the ground to play a little doll house before they had to head out the door. I don't think Em will ever want me to come home.</div>
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This morning my mom left, so sad.</div>
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She came back during my kidney stone episode and stayed for a full 2 weeks.</div>
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Although I find my hospital room rather pleasant, it has been so nice to get out once in a while.</div>
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Tomorrow marks 28 weeks and 4 weeks on bed rest.</div>
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Danielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-21033655000358160722012-11-02T14:56:00.001-07:002012-11-02T15:14:16.028-07:00Day 23Well the last couple of days have been very uneventful. No news is good news around these parts. They did check my cervix yesterday and determined that I am dilated to a 4. Since I am not having contractions, my doctors are not too concerned about it. Hopefully I will stay at a 4 for a while, I am really hoping to make it to 28 weeks or beyond.<br />
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28 weeks is quite a milestone for little preemies. Chances of survival are excellent and risks for major complications decrease significantly. Although it is still way too early for a baby to be born, it's worlds better than 24 weeks, which is what I was when first admitted.<br />
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Have I mentioned that I have some pretty darn amazing friends? They visit me regularly, help out with Emory, and text me daily to make sure I am ok. I am a lucky girl. Last night a few of them brought me cheesecake and we played games. Best night ever.<br />
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Em and my mom came and spent the morning with me. We went outside to enjoy a little sunshine. Em sure loved my wheelchair and I just can't get enough of her these days. I am going to be in trouble when I finally get out of here, that girl will get away with murder.</div>
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Friday afternoon now includes a non-stress test. I do them twice a week. It's funny how routine my life has become since being admitted to the hospital. I actually kind of like it, does that mean I am getting old?</div>
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I can't believe it's already the weekend, for someone who just lays in bed all day, the time really is flying by. No complaints here.</div>
<br />Danielle Oakey Interiorshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683425155466656859noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4124776114939719460.post-29481584309055310802012-10-31T17:14:00.001-07:002012-10-31T18:33:20.048-07:00Day 21: 27 WeeksToday is Halloween.<br />
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Emory has a school Halloween performance and costume parade for all the parents/grandparents and I can't be there.<br />
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I know it's not that big of a deal, but I have never missed anything before and I hate it. How do you explain to a 4 year old that you just can't be there? I hope she understands how much I want too, I get a lump in my throat and my eyes swell up just thinking about it.<br />
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She is the cutest Dorothy I ever did see.<br />
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So far Emory has adjusted well to me being hospitalized. My Mom has been an incredible help at keeping her on schedule and making her life feel normal. I really can't thank her enough, she has dropped everything to come and help us out. I will forever be grateful. I'm sure Em and my Mom will always have a special bond from this experience alone.<br />
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Today I got invited to a patient playgroup. Ok, it was just a get together with other patients on bed rest but my sister called it a "patient playgroup" and I find it rather fitting. I put on my best sweats and my mom even braided my hair...fancy.<br />
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I met 3 other woman on bed rest and 2 that had recently delivered. It's amazing what some woman go through to get babies here safely.<br />
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We painted pumpkins and chatted away for about an hour. It was just what I needed.<br />
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My doctors took me off of a medication today that was giving me bad headaches. It is used to stop contractions, but after 2 uneventful hours on the monitors (and off the meds) we determined that the medicine was no longer needed. Good bye headaches.</div>
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I am now officially 27 weeks. I couldn't be happier about that.</div>
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Well, I almost can't believe it. I've survived 20 days of hospital bed rest. It has gone surprisingly fast, and I am still sane. Imagine that.</div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">{this is on day 2 after they let my head up a little}</span></div>
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I plan on keeping a daily journal of my <i>exciting</i> hospital adventures. I know one day I will want to look back and read my thoughts and experiences from this unique time in my life. Since I am 20 days behind already, I thought I would do a quick re-cap of my hospital stay so far.</div>
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<b><u>Week 1:</u></b></div>
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The first day was rough. At my doctors appointment we discovered that my cervix was .9 cm in length (average is above a 3 cm) and that I needed to be admitted to the hospital for the duration of my pregnancy. I was 23 weeks 6 days. </div>
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I was given an IV (barf) and then hooked up to several drugs, one being Magnesium, which is horrible. It is used to reduce the chances of cerebral palsy in the baby once born. Unfortunately, the side effects for me are nasty, including intense headaches, dizziness, blurred vision, extreme hot flashes, and nausea. To top things off, they had my bed tilted so my head was below my feet, an old method used in hopes of keeping the baby in...literally. I was also not allowed to get up, so the trusty bed pan became my BFF. Lovely.</div>
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Once the contraction medications kicked in, everything calmed down and I was transferred to a different unit for patients on maternity bed rest.</div>
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My window is huge and I get plenty of sunlight pouring in. I have a sofa and chair for my guests, and the most amazing nurses.</div>
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Week two was very uneventful. I established a routine and had plenty of visitors. I learned that I can not nap during the day or I won't sleep at night, and that I am never hungry. I was taken to labour and delivery with a scare of contractions, but was returned several hours later still pregnant. Thank goodness.</div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">Week 3 was a doozy. We discovered my bags of water is bulging out of my cervix . Not good news. Although my water is still in tact (not broken) I am now at a higher risk for infections and delivery. I am also dilated to a 3. If I start to contract or dilate more, then they will have to deliver. </span></div>
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In my first pregnancy, I had a classical c-section (meaning my uterus was cut vertically) so a repeat c-section is necessary. The classical c-section also puts me at an increased risk for my uterus rupturing. Knowing this information, intense labouring is not allowed. </div>
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Lastly, we discovered that my placenta is located on the front of my uterus and is overlapping my previous c-section scar. We are concerned that my placenta has grown into the scar of my uterus, meaning that at delivery I will need a hysterectomy. We won't know for sure until they open me up and take a look.</div>
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I also passed a kidney stone, ouch. I had my doctors convinced that I was in labor and going to deliver within the day, but luckily, it was only a kidney stone. It hurt so bad and I hope to never go through that again! </div>
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I think that's it...phew! What a week :)</div>
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